Everyone talks about love… love in different way different context with different people. I seriously do not know whether true love exist or not but, I had seen many time (I said I had seen not feel) that at the end one always end up broken hearted, whether it’s the guy or the girl. I guess if true love exists then this should not happen. However, it happens everywhere with everyone. With my cousin, my friend, my junior, my classmates, my so called sister blah blah blah.
Is love so strong that we lost control over ourselves? Alternatively, is it that we love the other person more than we love ourselves that we do not mind getting hurt repeatedly? We know will be disappointed but still we go on with it until he/she leaves us all alone.
Not only this we sacrifices many times, still the other person doesn't love us the way we love him/her. I do not understand why we have to go through all these. We have not done anything wrong to anybody but still we suffer. We suffer for the one we love the most. What have we done to deserve all these? Is it a big mistake to love someone so much… Moreover, love just happens you cannot do anything about it.
It hurts when you see him/her with someone else.. At that point, are we being selfish? Because we are not getting that attention, we want… or it is one-sided love?
At that point, you will make up your mind that you will not let he/she hurt you again but just a glance, a smile, or a word from the person will make all difference.
In addition, we always end up loving the person who hurt us the most.
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Hi Linda,
I usually don't comment in your blog though I read it. This being a topic close to my heart, I thought I should.
It is human nature to wish we do not lose the person we care for but the love is as such that you can never control someone.
The challenge is in coming out of a relationship without the bitterness involved.
Ya thats true.
I got my answer.
Nice post darlin'. When's the next one coming?
Its the kick. Love gives a kick. Sure it hurts, but we love that Kick. Thats why we love.
wats up...??
i think u were hurt by someone..u truely loved....don mind..thats wat i felt...romeo
This post was not for me, i have written for someone. so its ok
This post was not for me, i have written for someone. so its ok
we mistakenly assume that if our bf/gf love us than they will react and behave in certain ways-the ways we react and behave when we love someone. There re always diferences between a man and a woman(opposite sex) and this differences makes the relation in terrible condition.Inorder to keep the relation healthy we need to understand the position of sexes such as........... A man's sense of self is defined through his ability to achieve results whereas, a woman's sense of self is defined through her feelings and the quality f her relation.
A HEALING LETTER
Understand how your past affects your present reactions helps you heal your feeling. if your partner has upset you in some way, write them a LOVE LETTER, and while u re writing ask urself how this relates to ur past. As you write you may find memories coming up from the past and discover that you re really upset with your own mother or father. at this point continue writing but now address your letter to ur parents. then write a loving RESPONSE LETTER. Share this with ur lover.
They will like hearing your letter. it feels great when ur partner takes responsibility for the 90% of their hurt that comes from the past. Without this understanding of our past we tend to blame our partners, or atleast they feel blamed.
If you want your partner to be more sensitive to your feelings, let them experience the painful feelings of your past. then they can understand your sensitivities.LOVE LETTER re an excellent opportunity to do this.
I associate myself with colour Black n White. I guess you know what i meant.
what did you mean by this?
check my black and white website.....
cya...
hey babe,its the way it is destined to be!!
to get hurt or no..thatz a choice you gotta make..
they say "The love that lasts the longest is the love that is never returned"..and wha do u think??how far is it true??
also remember..our darlin shakesphere asked "if its winter can spring be too far??"no na..love doesnt happen jus once..but yessss gettin a rite guy is jus once(obv..he s ur Mr.Right, 4 whom u waited al life..once he comes would neva leave..if he did..for sure gonna be ALONG wid u):)
love,Vasu
Thats very true..
You are right. Thanks
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